Do I want, do I need your gratitude? Do I have Unrequited love?

Surprise: I don’t need your gratitude. I don’t want your gratitude. I know what works, and I can find out if it worked for you without ever having to ask you. That’s what you can do with empathy.

So why do I encourage you to share? So others can hear that it works? Like a testimonial?

No, neither, but that’s a good idea, maybe I’ll use them as a testimonial!

So why then do I encourage you to share publicly?

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Please let me know your answer in my email question…

Shall I?

Please comment below. I am not fishing for compliments. I am not asking you to tell me what to do… I make my own decisions, thank you very much.

But I’d like some feedback… make sure you use this opportunity for self-examination…

Unconscious answers will not be published, but I’ll read them.

Thank you.

OK… The email was a market research. I wanted to find out what people who just signed up for some freebie think about me, or supporting me.

I got my answer. From now on I will make it harder for people to sign up to my email list, to get any of my free products, because my list is full of freebie seekers, gossip seekers, and that is what I suspected, and consequently found out.

I know, it was unorthodox, and if you are one of my students, you got scared. I apologize, I should have only sent the question to people who aren’t my students. Duh, I wasn’t thinking.

Isn’t more the merrier?

I mean subscribers, readers… No, by no means.

Their energy dilutes the message. I wish I could share with you some of the hate mail I got… lol.
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New post on the healing blog about fructose… and what it can do to your teeth, your throat, your voice, your esophagus

I had this insight in that theta brain state in the morning when I was about to wake up…

I have been struggling with acid reflux. It started about three weeks ago when I started to enjoy some jam on my toast again in the morning.

I forgot why I’d stopped using anything that has fruit in it… the fructose! duh.

But then, in this half dream half awake state, the insights came.

I have a client who can only whisper, because his vocal cord got damaged…
And there is this other client who has a tumor in his throat…

Continue reading on my Healing Blog

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What is my vibration? Is there a way to tell without muscle testing? or The unexamined life is not worth living”

In this article I will give you a few pointers for an examined life… because an examined life is a high vibration life.

Your vibration cannot be higher than the vibration of your life.

Let’s start with three exercises: I have done them myself this morning… As you will see, these exercises will successfully start you on the path of raising the vibration of your life… to an examined life

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Christmas, alone, my empath mother, being the true empath, and getting to no thing

As far as I can see back, Christmas was a painful reminder that I am alone.

I always wanted to go home… home was a place where I longed to be, but I had no idea what that would be like. Surely where I lived wasn’t home. Surely the people I was with left me feeling alone.

Later, relationship made my life busy, but I still felt alone. Not envying others, not something wrong, just alone. Like you are on the top of a mountain, and no one to share the experience with.

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Awakenings… your one way out of the misery

There have been several awakenings in my life.

The first potential awakening was when I was 22 years old. I had been in the mental hospital for two weeks and my condition didn’t get better, no matter what they did to me.

They even tried to use insulin shock therapy on me… that’s really bad, if you want to know the truth.

Then, as a last resort, they sent me to the “showers” that you should know from the Cuckoo’s nest movie… halfway though the “showers” I snapped out of it. There I was stark naked, and the misery wasn’t me, it wasn’t even mine.

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The doors to heaven swing on little hinges or the delusion that keeps them closed

What’s missing that ALL self-improvement, self-development products end up on the “fraud” pile that is as high as mount Everest?

Ultimately there are two types of teachers:

Can do (occasionally) what they teach, but unaware and unconscious of what they are doing

Can’t even do what they teach, but expect you to do it regardless

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It’s not wrong beliefs that keep you stuck in poverty, sickness, or misery

Beliefs are thought forms. Words. Mind-stuff.

The Universe is holographic. Holographic, among others, means that the patterns repeat in big and small things alike.
One of the patterns is the tree-like diagram of root-stem-fruit. We’ll examine that pattern in this article
The roots are hidden in the soil. The stem looks the same for most trees. And then the fruit is very specific.

Most self-improvement systems are busy improving the fruit without ever attending, or even being aware of the roots.

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Soul Correction #39: Diamond in The Rough

A diamonds in the rough looks like a piece of rock. If you don’t expect it, you will treat it as a rock. Or a shard of glass

But if you are willing to go beyond the surface, you will be rich. Few people ever do that. Not with themselves, not with others, not with anything in the world.

Their shallow view of the world makes their life shallow, and they will go for every glitter, every shiny object. Because they are unwilling to go beyond the top layer, the visible layer.

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